If you have discovered that you and your partner are no longer growing together like it was before, you should keep an eye out for signs if your partner is cheating you.
You and your partner may not spend much time together anymore, or your partner starts to act bizarrely in the recent time.
If you are worried and unhappy about your partner’s behavior, here are a few signs that you should check:
Your partner showers as soon as they get home
If your partner usually has a shower at nigh, but recent time switches to take a shower as soon as they get home, you should be worried. Maybe they are trying to take off the scent of another person. You can make a simple test and check if they’ll agree to kiss or hug you once they walk through the door.
They are not intimate as before
If your partner is not intimate with you in a recent time, they might be getting their pleasure elsewhere. Maybe there is some other reason about that, but it could be a good sign that your partner has decided to cheat.
They take forever to answer messages
Your partner is not replaying to your text messages fast as it was before. If takes an hour to answer you back, then they better to have a good excuse for it. The same goes for when your partner suddenly decides to add a lock to their phone. If you two really trusted each other, there would be no need for secrets.
They buy you random gifts
Your partner will either buy you gifts out of love or guilt. Think about their behavior recently in order to figure out. You don’t want to accuse your loving partner of cheating, just because you’re not used to be treated so kindly. But if your partner is sleeping with someone else, they may be buying you things to cover up that guilt.
They stay late at work
If your partner need to work late, it can also be another excuse. You can check the reason why your partner starts spending a lot more time at work. Most people are too shy or too polite to call up their partner’s boss to ask for the truth, which is what makes it the perfect excuse. But if you think your partner is sleeping with someone else, call them on it, or call their boss!
They pay more attention to their looks
If your partner usually doesn’t have a problem leaving the house with a stained shirt and ripped jeans, you should be suspicious when they start dressing nicely. If they pay more attention to their look then they might be in the honeymoon stage with someone else.
They use new moves in bed
When you and your partner actually get intimate, do they behave the same as they always have? If they put you in a new position or use a new kissing technique, then you should ask them where they got it from. They might’ve learned it from a friend or researched articles on the internet to impress you, but there’s always the possibility that they’ve learned it from the person they were cheating with.